The choice saga

Being born as a human being we are born with wishes, Might not be true but the first thing we crave for is ‘to cry’ in the sense to communicate with this world as an alien from the womb that ‘I am here’. As we grow up, our whishes also start to grow with ice-creams and colorful balloons to the Attractions of Opposite Sex. Though the retrospective view of all our wish accomplishment attempts contains the traces of our awful stupidity like rolling down the floors and streets, grimace and cry to make our parents buy ice-creams while we still having severe cold, but the time we really feel our stupidity will come with the embarrassing attractions. Every one of us in life must have overcome these attractions even though we try to dodge with fate. Till now I have meant the term attraction relating only to the effects of testosterone and estrogen, it have both the positive and negative effects in life but all the effects is directly connected to the person we choose in life or to the person we get attracted.

Basically the attraction is a broad spectrum to deal which is directly connected to our every wish, before we discuss that we have to understand the evolution of wishes. Wishes arise with the source of feeling for need. Our state of heart initially starts with a vacuum that is desire for nothing; if we can control the state of vacuum then we would be evolved to super human which can be compared to true saints (now a days there is a need to differentiate saints and true saints). Which is possible, only if we can cross or reach the Self-Actualization level or needs which can be compared to the need stated by Abraham Maslow in his Hierarchy of Needs model. So this vacuum is always tempted by needs to get it filled and the source for this reflex is attraction which is perceived by the sensors that is our 6 senses. This process has its own gestation period for every whish accomplishment according to their severity, so the wish takes its forms desire and aspiration. Normal wish turns to desire and that to most enduring aspiration.

Focusing on the right things and filtering the productive wishes is the difficult thing for us do but being born as human and having the sixth sense for the morality we have to achieve this thing. Our life is filled with lot of options at every single moment or instance of time and choosing the right option needs a lot of rational power.The problem is not only with abundant options available but it is about the options available as doppelgangers, all the options are looking alike and you only has to believe your instincts at certain times for choosing the right one. I have already written about this in one of my previous post titled ‘Rational Being’ which states that “The hardest thing for being a Human Being lies in Bounded Rationality, Pertaining to decisions that have to be made to counter the ethical dilemma in every walk of our life to transform ourselves to a Celestial Being”. Our every decision affects our rest of the life so it becomes very important – ‘our every decision at a moment before’. It holds all the strategically important moment like making career choice, choosing friends, soul mate, interests, hobbies etc. The decisions not only affects us but our next generation and our peers, just imagine you are a peer to a drunken citizen travelling in a bus by your adjacent seat or a smoker who smokes by your side in a public area, you can feel those persons hatred unless you are prone to those habits.

In the current world it becomes tougher because of the increased choices which are available due to the development of science and technology. With more luxury come more sins, really the probability of doing sins has increased in the choices available today at a single moment of our life. For example, in the yesteryear people have to go out and search the brothels to commit adultery but the greatest gifts of technology started with audio/video recording devices to the greatest gift internet which all derived a new sin called pornography which is filled in the choices at every moment of life. With much more advancement of technology which are at the whiskers of popularity called smart phones and tablet computers the probability would increase much more. In my value education course I have learnt that even one being lazy or procrastinating are considered to be sinning against god, with the evolution of social networking and facebooking no one can stand apart from that. Even an another interesting thing about facebooking comes in to my mind which is a fact that I came across while a read, ‘A person in facebook is exposed to all the happy like moments of his peers through their photo album updates and wall updates though they are actually not, which makes that person depressed unnecessarily and restricting to live their own moment’.From somewhere i am hearing the term blogging but if someone wants to ask its effects to me, my answer is "Shhhhh...!!! no clue buddy !!".

I am not blaming the science and technology and I won’t, being a Bachelor of Technology. But I am realizing how hard it is to become a celestial being by enduring in this current world. I am not a quintessential person and I don’t have the ability to judge how good or bad I am or the decisions that I make. One thing I can be sure of, it is by being with god and by living this moment right every time I can make a difference,I can get the ability of being a good rational being and can make a better community starting from me.